The 5 Biggest Lies in Real Estate Marketing—and How to Avoid Them
“More leads, more business.” “You need to be on every platform.” “Branding is all about visuals.”
Sound familiar? These are just a few of the myths I hear in the real estate industry, particularly when it comes to marketing. Too often, real estate agents and business owners pour time and resources into strategies that promise results but don’t deliver. Over years in this business, I’ve found that knowing which tactics to skip can be just as valuable as knowing which ones to focus on.
Here’s the truth about what actually works in real estate marketing and what doesn’t.
Who Am I?
For those who don’t know me, I’m Justin Konikow, a real estate and media entrepreneur with years of experience guiding clients and agents through a rapidly evolving market. From founding Prime Real Estate Brokerage to building Prime Media Productions, I’ve had a front-row seat to the strategies that truly drive growth—and the ones that fall flat.
“Effective real estate marketing isn’t just about visibility; it’s about credibility. Build something that people can trust, and the clients will come,” I often say on the Prime People Podcast
With that said, let’s debunk some of the biggest marketing lies and explore what it really takes to succeed.
1. “More Leads = More Business”
Here’s a classic one. Many believe that more leads mean more revenue, but the reality is that lead quality matters far more than quantity. Building a client base of 1,000 prospects sounds impressive, but if they’re not engaged, they won’t convert.
Instead, prioritize building relationships with high-quality leads. Spend the time nurturing genuine connections rather than chasing numbers. As I always say, “A smaller list of engaged clients beats hundreds of unqualified leads every time.” Your goal should be to build trust, not just traffic.
2. “Branding is All About Flashy Logos and Visuals”
Real estate branding goes beyond a sleek logo. Too many agents pour resources into aesthetics without establishing the foundations of a solid brand experience. Yes, visuals are part of your brand, but branding is ultimately about how clients feel when they work with you.
At Prime Real Estate, we focus on values like trust, transparency, and results to form the core of our brand. Every visual and experience reflects those values. I encourage agents to focus on the story behind their brand before perfecting the visuals.
“Real branding is about trust and credibility, not just design. Make sure the experience matches the visuals,” I advise clients
3. “You Need to Be on Every Social Platform”
You don’t. Being on every platform dilutes your impact and often leads to burnout. When we doubled down on YouTube as our main platform, our reach tripled because we were speaking to a specific audience in a targeted way
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Pick 1-2 platforms that align with your target market and focus on those. Every platform has unique strengths, but you don’t need to leverage all of them. Find where your audience hangs out, and speak to them there.
4. “Digital Marketing Alone Closes Deals”
Sure, online marketing can generate attention, but it’s the human touch that closes deals. Today’s consumers crave authenticity. Many agents rely on paid ads without following up personally, thinking digital alone can make the sale. In reality, it’s your personal touch—calls, texts, personalized messages—that builds client confidence and makes the difference.
5. “Paid Ads Guarantee Success”
I’m not against paid advertising, but there’s a misconception that ads alone can “buy” success. Without a strong organic strategy, ads are a temporary fix rather than a long-term solution. Ads should enhance an existing strategy, not replace it. Invest in building genuine connections and a credible brand first, then consider ads to amplify that message.
Final Thoughts
In real estate, it’s easy to fall for the “Easy Button” approach, chasing trends without focusing on fundamentals. Real success lies in understanding your audience, providing real value, and building lasting connections.
If you’re looking for strategies that actually work in real estate, focus on what matters: authentic relationships, a strong brand experience, and meaningful engagement. Skip the quick-fix myths and build something that lasts.
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Navigating the authenticity crisis: How embracing your true self on social media can drive real estate success
Social media is what we make of it — for better or worse. I recently shared how competition drives innovation at the best of times, but when things are tough, comparison leaves us miserable. Expanding on what’s helped me achieve authenticity with integrity, here’s some more food for thought.
Build a real brand
I’m not talking about pretending you’re on a private jet or going to Fyre Festival or driving your Bugatti, unless that’s your actual life. I’m talking about thinking about what makes YOU happy and finding those in alignment.
Here’s an example from my experience.
Jiu-jitsu is a bit of a niche sport. Maybe not so much these days, but when I started back in 2005 it was akin to the movie Fight Club in most people’s minds. As a kid I was bullied and martial arts was something I naturally gravitated towards. Having made it a part of my life for more than a decade, it taught me discipline and resilience and I still give it credit for much of my success today. I didn’t share much about my life in that world back then because I never thought it mattered. Why would anyone buying real estate care about jiu-jitsu?
The reality was I was overlooking the fact that on the mats daily were police officers, lawyers, musicians, tradespeople and everything in between. As I shared more and more about my progression in the sport, more people would engage on those posts and my newest listing or sale — by a LARGE margin. DMs would come asking for gym recommendations — they would show up and I would make new friends. Then it clicked again when I met one of my mentors, Ryan Serhant, who said, “No one wants to be sold, but everyone loves shopping with friends.”
In one year I did close to a dozen transactions strictly from my gym family. I helped them relocate the building, all without ever pitching anyone.
Actually, when I think about it, I ACTIVELY didn’t speak about real estate, but it always came up. Because through my content, I was sharing what I was doing day-to-day when I wasn’t in the gym. This led to giving my people the ability to decide if I was right for them. Rather than trying to sell someone who would never want to work with me anyway, this was a much more natural and sustainable approach. Not to mention the hack of getting to do something I love all while building my business.
So what is it you love? Restaurants? Sewing? Fitness? Fishing? Cars? Cats? It doesn’t really matter. What matters is that you don’t hide your light. The more you shine your light, the more the right people can find it.
Tell stories of your true journey — reputation is built over time but lost forever in a moment
People love stories. They love hearing about struggle and, more than that, when the underdog overcomes the struggle. New agents struggle with what to share and often make the mistake of trying to showcase they are more advanced in their careers than they actually are.
A trend in real estate is new agents booking “previews” of luxury listings and attempting to showcase those listings as their own. They’re hoping to build a reputation of being a “luxury agent” without having the skill set to go along with handling clients of this calibre and complexity.
There’s nothing worse than getting an opportunity for a sale, only to have them know very quickly that you’re not qualified. Reputation is something built over time but lost forever in a moment.
Instead, share your ACTUAL journey and where you’re at. People want to be part of the come-up.
Just learning contracts? Take time to be around people with experience and share that journey with your community. Formulate unique perspectives and insights. You’ll quickly find that people appreciate frank candour rather than being sold.
For example, I once shared about the residency clause in the typical APS. I learned that a BUYER could be liable for capital gains if the seller was a non-resident and fled before paying. Furthermore, if the agents didn’t do their due diligence in identifying the parties, they could be sued.
I shared this in a post on Instagram when I only had 150 followers. A builder was in the middle of a deal, saw the video and told me he saved himself from a costly mistake. He never liked the post. He never shared it. But, he did call me for coffee and a partnership which, to me, is far more valuable.
Social media can save you from the wrong clients
I almost forgot to mention how much social media saved me from the wrong clients. The business we’ve built would not survive on a discount model. That’s not saying that a discount model doesn’t work for others or is wrong, it’s just not what we chose.
Putting out as much content as we have, I’m positive that we’ve saved hundreds of hours of effort from working with people who don’t see the value in what we do.
There are nearly eight billion people on the planet. If only one billion want to sell their houses with me, I’m okay with that. Every “no” gets me closer to that one billion.
Now what?
You’ve now peeked behind the curtain. You realize that the “fake” side of social media will always be there. At the same time, you realize the “social” side of social media is underutilized.
It doesn’t mean you need to dance on TikTok. It doesn’t mean you need to book a trip and hire a lifestyle photographer — unless, of course, that’s who you really are. Instead, it means that it’s okay to be yourself.
Share your interests. Share your passions. Find the place where the things you love intersect with what people will pay you for. Share it consistently for long enough, and I’m sure a builder will be calling you before long for that coffee that you always wanted. Attract the right people. Repel the wrong ones.
Navigating the Authenticity Crisis: How to Thrive in a Fake Social Media World
You hate social media because you think it’s fake.
You think it’s fake because you see many people showing versions of themselves that seem “off.”
You don’t post because you’re scared you must do the same to succeed.
Meanwhile, the people who grow the most understand that the OPPOSITE is true.
I was just like you
Early on in my career, I was super naive. I saw people with more significant followings and assumed they were the real deal. I wondered why I only had 100-200 followers. I wondered why I only got four likes on a post, and what I had to do to become an authority in real estate.
I put out SO much content, hosted events and supported other people like CRAZY, but I didn’t see any traction online. I watched other accounts (TOO much) grow by tens of thousands of followers and felt like I was failing.
Then I noticed something.
My phone was ringing. People called me saying they wanted my content and wanted to work together.
I got listings. We grew.
I also noticed those same people with 5-10 times my following were NOT selling. Online, they looked great, but it didn’t translate to REAL relationships.
Then I figured out the problem
When I reached a certain threshold, I started getting pitched to BUY followers — the new trend in getting engagement/comments/views.
The more things change, the more they stay the same.
It felt GROSS, and I had to make a decision. If I was going to go that route, there was no going back.
Some people will do it because, “It’s sales, baby!” If that’s your jam, go for it. For me, when people hear my name, what’s more important to me is this proverb:
“A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, loving favor rather than silver and gold.”
This business is fraught with pitfalls. Competition is great. Comparison is not.
In the best of times, competition drives innovation. It can show us what’s possible and help us refine our best selves.
In the worst of times, comparison leaves us miserable, despite the fact that we still have so much.
So how can you solve this? Here’s what helped me achieve authenticity with integrity.
Shut out the noise
What you focus on expands. I did a time audit and started catching myself when I was spending more time worried about my competition than growing my own business. So, I researched better ways to curate my feed:
1. Unfollow and block people
I know this sounds aggressive but it was necessary at the time. It may not have been a “them” problem — their content actually WAS that good. Rather, it was me realizing that to accomplish the dreams I had required drastic measures, and this was one of them.
I FORCED myself to unfollow anyone that gave me that negative feeling.
It wasn’t a lot of work. I didn’t overthink it. I just went off feel.
At first, it didn’t make a difference. But, after being thoughtful about it for a couple of months, I found myself being MUCH more productive online. Posting with a purpose and GHOSTING. Not doomscrolling or feeling bad. WIN.
2. Build community
After I figured out who I didn’t want in my feeds, I realized the algorithms on ALL platforms WANT to serve you the RIGHT people.
Think about it. If your feed is filled with terrible things, it’s probably more a reflection of what you actually look at or engage with.
Did you know that just PAUSING on a post for 1.5 seconds counts as an impression?
When I realized this I did another quick Google search: “How to clean up your feed on ‘insert any social platform here’”
I’ll save you the research:
Click “see less”
Click “X” to close the post
Unfollow
Every single platform has a simple way to tell it you don’t want that content in your feed. Ask yourself when you last took time to TELL the platforms what you WANT.
Same as unfollowing people, it didn’t take much effort. It was simple actions done consistently over time that allowed me to succeed here.
This was one of the BIGGEST unlocks. Slowly but surely so many people I wanted to communicate with were popping up in my feed.
So much of what I didn’t like about social media went away: The petty political arguments. The provocative. The violence. The fear.
Social media is not fake unless you assume so or engage with it in that way
What dominates the bulk of people’s feeds adds nothing good to your lives, I promise you that.
What dominates my feed is a community of people who are driven and intelligent, with integrity.
What dominates my feed are things that make me smarter.
What dominates my feed are people who are IN my community.
Social media is meant to be social. It’s not fake unless you assume it is or engage with it in that way.
Social media is the cafeteria at your high school. You choose the table to sit down at, and guess what? You can stand up and change tables anytime. So, I did.
I doubled down on MY people. The ones who cheered for us and wanted us to win. I continued trying to provide valuable solutions to their problems regardless of the vanity metrics.
It took me a LONG time, but the platforms figured out who I was talking to, and the compound effect is undefeated. We’ve now reached over nine million people and climbed across multiple platforms, but that’s unimportant.
What’s important is that we continue to find the RIGHT people.
What’s important is slow growth over time will yield something sustainable and valuable.
Stop worrying about followers. Stop worrying about likes. Stop worrying about views.
Instead, focus on the human beings at the other end of the DM or phone call. They are REAL people. Stop treating your “community” like income lines on a spreadsheet. When you do that, everything will change.
Character Over Clicks: Why Integrity Beats Influence Every Time
You are not as bad as you tell yourself you are.
You are not as good as other people tell you you are.
The truth is always somewhere in the middle.
Let me share a secret from what I’ve learned seeing behind the curtain in the world of“influencers” vs actual successful people.
The Key difference is that successful people don’t pay any attention to the wrong things people say about them, while at the same time not believing their own hype.
The trait that makes them successful is the willingness to approach everything with a student mindset.
However, influencers tend to look for the shortcut. They aspire to validation without a desire for the skill. They also tend to spend a lot of time politicking, using people for their gain, and burning bridges in their wake.
Successful people build bridges and then come back to help guide others across, often to their short-term detriment but always leading to long-term success.
We need to stop quantifying people’s value based on their vanity metrics.
If you look at someone’s metrics before you look at their character, you need to reprogram your brain.
There are people with millions of followers who bought them.
People with hundreds of followers can send one text and change your life.
People claim “authenticity” as just “keeping it real.”
Is it aspirational to spew negativity and burn bridges cause that is just how you feel? Keep it 100 authentic.
How about aspiring to be a better human?
Character is who you are when no one is watching.
Character > Influence
Integrity> Authenticity
New me Vs Old me
If you commit to being consistent, the old version of you will never be able to keep up, and the new version will be better than you ever thought possible.
"The Career you have chosen is fraught with opportunity, and laden with the bodies of those who have failed." -The Greatest Salesman in the World
I remember when Shannon and I started in this business.
First, we wanted to sell one property in one neighborhood
Then we wanted to sell many properties in many neighborhoods
Then we wanted to build something VERY different- a company that is known for actually SELLING real estate vs hiring agents.
Now we are a globally recognized name, building bigger bridges than we ever thought possible.
The key wasn’t that we were inherently better than anybody else. It wasn’t that we inherited a database or business from somebody. It was, we were committed to excellence and consistency and trying to grow every single year.
2023 is another year, where we look back, so proud of the people, the systems, and the processes that we have built without being attached to the outcome.
What’s exciting is the version of PRIME you will see next year will be so much further ahead of what we think is possible today, because of the incredible people we have in the ecosystem and their commitment to consistent action over time.
It’s not easy, it’s not supposed to be.
Slow is smooth smooth is fast. The key is consistent action.
Here’s a simple concept for you. When you get a new lead, the industry average for Initial contact attempts is 1.2.
Statistically, the actual conversion happens at 6-12 attempts.
Keep it simple.
Learn what to say.
Use the system.
Don't be attached to the results.
Review, and recalibrate.
You'll be shocked at what's possible.
How has Failure shaped your life?
How has Failure shaped your life?
Ask yourself that question.
I’ve interviewed hundreds of people on the PRIME PEOPLE PODCAST and asked them this question. Without fail, every one of them lights up when I ask it. You can allow this question and the word failure to be heavy and negative or see it as the most incredible opportunity.
I screwed up a lot.
I tried things that didn’t work.
I chased the wrong fit clients.
I remember getting the mandate to sell a large subdivision of homes early in my career—100+ homes in a multi-phase development. We noticed a significant culture shift within the organization. We came in, created a boatload of value and action, and things were looking great. We realized we were NOT in partnership and had a core conflict regarding our core values of putting people before profits and caring for the customers. Then, a site supervisor walked in and disrespected one of my female staff members and wanted to create an environment of scarcity around the sales site rather than collaboration. We quickly decided to leave the area- giving up the short-term battle for the long-term war. This objectively could have been perceived as a loss, but the clarity we got on whom we want to partner with and the LOYALTY we gained from our staff for standing up for them is not something we could BUY anywhere.
“The righteous keep moving forward, and those with clean hands become stronger and stronger.”
I could have done better at content. I got made fun of. I shot thousands of short-form videos, hundreds of property tours, and tons of content that didn’t work—no likes, no comments, not many followers. People close to me dropped comments like, “Do you think it’s too much? Are you some life coach? Do you even sell real estate?”
It would have been easier to listen. It would have been easier to fall in line with the opinions of people who weren’t doing the thing I wanted to do. If I had, I would have never built relationships with some of the most incredible people on the planet. I would have never made a global referral network that rivals some of the biggest brokerages on the planet. I would never have been able to refine my tactics and strategies and stay ahead of the competition. I would never have been able to discover the intersection of a thing I love and what I’m good at in Real Estate and Media.
"Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up." ― Thomas Edison.
I build out SOPs and training protocols that I’ve since scrapped and started over on.
I figured out the RIGHT fit clients by working with the wrong appropriate clients.
I found the right software and media gear by trying the ones that weren’t my speed.
I discovered the RIGHT SOPs and protocols by testing the wrong ones.
But at least I tried.
"I can accept failure. Everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying." ― Michael Jordan.
Every success in my life has been through growing through some of the most challenging adversity.
Every growth stage has happened after my most significant perceived loss or challenge.
It’s the Incredible Hulk effect.
The more they attack him, the bigger he gets.
There is only success with resistance.
The world lied to you when they told you that everything would happen for you once you found the algorithm hack, the exact script to say to a client, or hired that perfect employee.
What they should have told you is if you find those things by doing the actions that lead you to them- not in some course sold by someone who doesn’t even do the thing themself is selling.
Life is art and math.
Be aware of the math.
Show up for the Art that only you can make.
So let me ask you;
How has failure shaped your life?
Are you Scared of the "WHAT IFS"?
You will never be able to accomplish anything if you’re too afraid of the “what if.”
“The amateur believes he must first overcome his fear; then he can do his work. The professional knows that fear can never be overcome. He knows there is no such thing as a fearless warrior or a dread-free artist.”
― Steven Pressfield
Fear of looking stupid
Fear of what people will think about you
Fear of letting people down
Fear of letting yourself down.
It’s why you don’t shoot content.
It’s why you don’t pick up the phone and call people.
It’s why you don’t sit down to do the work.
It’s why you procrastinate.
Instead, what if you decided that the fear was something to embrace? What happens if you don’t feed the fear? It dies.
The secret to success is not to wait until the fear is gone. Every successful person I know still has it. The difference is they break the pattern. They stop worrying about the what-ifs. They stop doomscrolling social feeds into envy and impostor syndrome.
Think of this next time you feel fear.
Instead of feeding it, shoot a piece of content, go for a walk, call a prospect, or pick up an instrument. Anything but feed the fear.
“We can’t control the things that happen to us.
Only our reactions.
Things come and go
Emotions come and go
The important thing is to accept them all
Embrace them all
Then you can choose to do with them what you want Versus being controlled by emotion
If you feed fear, it grows If you step back, it shrinks.”
-Kobe Bryant
😩One day- Or day one?⏰
I’m going to eat better.
I’m going to wake up earlier.
I’m going to make time to do the thing I love.
I’m going to make the time to play with my kids.
I’m going to make time to connect with my wife.
I’m going to build that business plan. I know I need to do
One day.
Words matter. If you keep telling yourself one day, one day, you’ll look back and realize it’s too late.
What if you told yourself instead that today is day one?
Day one of doing the things that fill your cup. Day one of NOT doing the things that drain it?
Ultimately, you are the one responsible for the language you choose to accept.
So tell me.
Is tomorrow just going to be another “One Day”
Or will you make it Day One?
🛠️Constructive or Corrosive☠️: The Dual Faces of Organizational Culture
“Encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are also doing.”
Think about your BIGGEST WIN
Now think about your BIGGEST LOSS
Often, we give credit to others when we win, then put so much pressure on ourselves when we lose.
I remember the first Commercial deal I ever had was a 15,000 sq foot office building with 55% vacancy. The seller wanted a million dollars, but the math showed buyers should be in the 550-650 range. The seller wouldn’t budge. Shannon, my partner and wife, having her M.B.A. from the Richard Ivey School of Business, went into spreadsheet mode and devised three strategies where we could list at 850 and use creative financing to get the seller there in 5 years with a VTB deal. We went to work.
A week later, we received a nasty email from another agent in our office berating our pricing and saying that we had no business listing this property because we were so new. What shocked me the most was he worked AT our office. This was when I realized the culture we were in was NOT collaborative- rather combative. Instead of focusing on the email(which we did like ordinary people for a bit, then detached)- we focused on the problem.
We found a buyer who LOVED our structure because they WERE the perfect buyer - it was just the capital allocation that wouldn’t make sense at a million- so we did a creative design that allowed them to put down WAY less of a downpayment, work on the building for five years get it to 95% occupancy and have a great asset. The seller got over a million, and everyone won- except that agent who wrote the nasty email.
His email led us to build PRIME. Looking back, we are eternally grateful- grateful he showed us who we DIDN’T want to become.
We wanted to become The most trusted name in real estate.
We wanted to become more than a brokerage.
We wanted to become more than a team.
We wanted to create an environment for people to love what they do.
We wanted to be known for not playing favorites.
We wanted everyone to win.
We wanted to learn to turn every problem into an opportunity.
The culture we found and the people we work with are great examples of how this is possible.
We found loyal and great staff.
We found collaborative, creative, and driven agents.
We found clients that are loyal, hardworking, and excellent at what they do.
We also found ourselves driving away people who don’t align with our values, and that’s okay. There are places and cultures for everyone.
What you focus on expands.
I am grateful for the mentors, team members, staff, and those who show us daily what collaboration truly means.
What’s wild is the more you give, the more you get. Honestly, I don’t know where that agent is- I haven’t seen his name nor interacted with him, but rather than holding any resentment, I’m grateful for him, too.
What are you grateful for today?
I got fired🚫
A couple of years ago, I faced one of the most challenging moments in my real estate career. It was the sale of 100-acre off-grid property that took twists and turns before finally sealing the deal.
But why am I telling you this story? Because, within this tale, lie the three foundational pillars that have consistently driven my business forward: Learning, Prospecting, and Building that I’m hoping will help you level up.
**The Journey from getting 😡fired to Sold🚀**
Years ago I sold one of the most incredible properties you could imagine. The deal initially happened because I was in the right place at the right time with the right knowledge and the willingness to throw my entire schedule for a loop to get the RIGHT buyer to a specific property. We spent nine hours on this property and one of the worst snowstorms you can imagine. A deal for the ages that is a story for the other for another day.
I remember specifically telling this client that this property was so unique that if he ever had to resell it, I would likely need about four years given the average days on the market at the time, and the fact that I was talking to probably .5% of the marketplace.
Two years later he needed to sell.
I reminded him of the initial conversation but said I was willing to take on the challenge is selling unique properties is something that we happen to be very good at. We put together a marketing campaign like no other and actually yielded a buyer that was looking to do something very specific with the property. We spent months working with the local municipalities and Planning offices to push through on allowing a re-purposed means of the zoning and ended up getting stonewalled and went back to the drawing table. Unbeknownst to me, he had a very close friend that kept bugging him to get the listing should my listing agreement run out(which is actually called tortuous interference- a story for another day as well ;). At the end of that listing agreement, he told me that he felt he needed to give his friend a shot, and there was no bad blood as when I tell people that I am here to serve if my friendship and attitude are merely based around them hiring me, then would I really be their friend?
Suffice it to say he spent the next couple years cycling through different agents, and eventually came back to me, saying he had not experienced marketing like we did the first time around, nor results like we had with activity. When I got the mandate the second time, we blew the doors off the sale and leveled up our business in a very big way. The key to the story is during that time instead of licking my wounds, we used it as an opportunity to see what we could have done better to have maintained the mandate. Maybe there was nothing I could have done, but if I didn't take it as an opportunity to grow, I would never have been able to level up our business the way we did. Here are three massive takeaways from that.
1. **Learning:** Every day, I immerse myself in acquiring new knowledge. Be it marketing, cinematography, or any field that kindles my passion. The sale of this property was heavily influenced by my expertise in cinematography and storytelling which helps make our client properties stand out, a skill we are still developing.
2. **Prospecting:** It's a non-negotiable daily task for me. I reach out to leads, hot prospects, nurtures, and past clients. By keeping my pipeline active and engaging, I stay connected and relevant.
3. **Building (Working ON the Business):** After losing the initial listing, instead of sulking, I assessed what could be improved. I worked on enhancing the areas of my business that needed attention, ensuring I wouldn't make the same mistakes again. By continuously refining and adapting, I made sure my business model was robust and client-centric.
For all of us, whether in real estate or any other industry, the essence remains the same. It's crucial to:
- Continuously **learn** and adapt.
- Persistently **prospect** and expand your network.
- Constantly **build** and refine your business.
In our journey, it's easy to be overwhelmed by daily tasks, emails, and challenges. Yet, it's paramount to remember these three pillars.
If you’ve made it this far I know have a challenge for YOU
Think of a client that gave you a sense of joy through adversity similar i to the story I told. Comment, email me, or dm me and tell me the story. I bet we find in it what you learned, did to prospect and can build on to create a more resilient business.
Let’s GROW
Show me your Bank account/Calendar
If I could only look at your calendar and bank account, what picture would that paint of who you are?
And I don’t mean how much money you have or rating you based on who you meet.
Rather, we have ambitions, or images of who we are/want to be; and the question then lies- are you spending time and money in places that take you close or further from those goals?
A lot of real estate agents chase being a version of themselves that is not in alignment with what brings them joy.
At PRIME we’ve worked really hard to cultivate a unique environment that encourages people to integrate what makes them unique and brings joy into their work.
We also work really hard at honing our craft. We spend time sharpening our axe together so we can head out into the wilderness wherever our clients send us to harvest, knowing that when we are alone the work we did as a collective will determine our outcomes.
We also refine our WHY and WHO regularly as oftentimes ambitions shift.
If I asked you today:
Who are you?
What do you do?
Where do you do it?
Could you answer those questions?
Once you understand those three questions, then you can map out the actions required to become the best version of yourself. After that, it’s as simple as resource management. Where do you invest your time and money?
Often we can romanticize our actions, we are after all the hero of our own movie.
But the facts don’t lie. It’s not good or bad it just is.
If your ambitions don’t match your actions; change your actions or change your ambitions.
What are you good at and what do you LOVE to do?
What are you good at and what do you LOVE to do?
Someone asked me recently:
"What are you good at and what do you LOVE to do?"
I'm good at Real Estate, Marketing, and Strategy
I LOVE to create content and storytelling
This has led me to be able to sell using storytelling, new media, and content creation and has attracted a clientele that appreciates Real Estate market intelligence, Marketing, and Strategy and understands the impact of new media and how it can bring in 5-10 X the amount of attention and reach to their properties and projects than your typical MLS listing.
It has repelled clients who only want the cheapest option, as there's a difference between what you pay and how much money you make, and I want to work with those that care more about the NET they make- as it allows me to over-invest in them.
That said, there are models to serve others, and I think that's great. The KEY here is to understand this:
YOU are uniquely you.
How often do people become stuck thinking they need to become someone else to find joy, success, and purpose in their work?
I would argue the most successful and happy people on the planet have found a way to take what they love and combine it with what they are good at to find true success.
I'm a creator, I love cinematography, content creation, and marketing. Hence why it feels effortless and I can maintain energy in it. Because it fills my cup.
Maybe you love to travel.
Maybe you love events.
Maybe you love the art of the deal.
Maybe you haven't found it yet, but that's ok as well.
This week, I challenge you to put aside some time to think about this.
What are you good at and what do you LOVE to do?
If you can figure out those two things, everything else in your business becomes easy.
TELL me in the comments what those are for YOU.
Why?
For two reasons:
It will help bring you clarity.
It allows me to find people who would be a fit for YOU. I know a few people, so the only thing you have to lose by not po🚀sting is opportunity.
Let's GROW🚀